Chasing people to get things done?

  • Pressure makes us anxious, we work faster and feel impatient.
  • We battle against being driven by anxiety.
  • It's hard to think clearly and make sound judgements.
  • At such times, our emotional intelligence is severely tested.
  • Ask yourself - do you really need to feel anxious and impatient?
  • Who or what is driving you into this state?
  • If you can't change your circumstances, can you simply decide to feel differently about it - given that no one can force you to feel anything.
  • When we chase people we create a self-fulfilling prophecy that motivates people to let us down continually.
  • People resent being chased and so take less responsibility for their work thereby forcing us to keep chasing forever.
  • If you are chasing, then you are part of the problem - perhaps its cause.
  • There's no problem with monitoring people's work. You aren't otherwise.
  • It is ad hoc chasing that causes difficulties.
  • Better to agree completion and periodic review dates with people.
  • Leave them alone in the meantime unless a crisis arises.
  • If people know when a review date is coming up they can prepare themselves and strive to ensure that the project is at the stage it should be at.
  • How can you move beyond simply giving people responsibility to motivating them to want to take hold of it fully?
         

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