What
are the top 5 most important factors to you in a working relationship?
Trust
- not being let down or betrayed
Openness
- communicating openly and honestly
Fun
- being able to laugh with someone
Social
contact - doing things together other than work
Understanding
- someone who sees your side of things
Work
ethic - shared commitment to work
Competence
- having skills or knowledge you respect
Shared
values - like yours or ones you respect
Shared
vision - striving to achieve similar things
Partnership
- sharing the load and the rewards
Congruence
- agreeing on how to do things
Liking
- chemistry, compatibility
Depth
- feeling close, depth of personal knowledge
Common
interests - shared work or personal interests
Similar
personality - lively/outgoing, serious/quiet etc.
Not
sure which features in a relationship are most important to you?
Think
of someone you work well with now. Which of the above characteristics
does that relationship have? Conversely, what is missing in other relationships?
What
about the people you want to get closer to at work? Which of the your
chosen top 5 factors might help you build a bridge to them?
Which
of the others might be obstacles to forming closer relationships with
some colleagues and how can you minimize their negative effect?