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Strong relationship skills are essential to manage others and be an effective team member. Click on the topics below of interest.

Being a team player Communicating
Learning from feedback Interpersonal sensitivity
Conflict resolution Confronting people
Listening skills Networking


  • What are your business relationships like at the moment?
  • Weak to nonexistent? Or positively bad?
  • Do you want better relationships with everyone or just a few?
  • Do you build relationships strategically? Try this quiz.
  • To manage yourself effectively, think strategically - how should you invest your time and energy to obtain the greatest return?
  • What can you minimally do for those people who count most in your personal strategic plan?
  • It's not about transforming your entire personality - even if you could, it would be too large an investment for too little return.
  • It's better to take just those few practical steps that will get you the return you need with minimum investment.
  • Do you feel that your colleagues are undermining you? Try quiz.
  • What is your influencing style? Try quiz.
  • How well do you listen? Try quiz.
  • Do you see organizational politics as destructive? Try quiz.

Common reasons underlying relationship issues

  • I need to develop relationships at work but I never find time.
  • I have had feedback that people find me too competitive and aggressive to form or maintain good relationships.
  • I have been told that my relationships suffer because people find me too impatient and short fused.
  • I should spend more time developing relationships, but being introverted, it doesn't come naturally to me.
  • I find it difficult to trust some of my colleagues.

Characteristics of good working relationships

  • What counts as a good working relationship for you?
  • What steps can you take to build better working relationships?

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